Chimamanda Adichie: The danger of a single story

[Heart warming] Syrian Father Reunites With Son He Thought Was Killed i...

                         

Would you still be faithful to your spouse after an accident that claimed his/her two legs?

A former US Marine Jesse Cottle had only been married to Kelly for a year when he was injurd as he attempted to dismantle the explosive device in Afghanistan in 2009. The couple (right) were photographed while they visited her family (left) in Idaho.

Yikes. Marriage proposal ends in disaster...

How sensitive are you to the lady you wish to be your wife?
I think you need to be patient and smart to know if she will accept your proposal before doing it publicly.
If yo are not too sure, please make it private.

Single ladies, let's not accept a public marriage proposal because of the people watching, because when they are no longer in sight, hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Sorry Pal, Better luck next time *wink*

Baby Mi Da - Dr Victor Olaiya Ft 2Face Idibia (OFFICIAL VIDEO)

This video is a perfect blend of the old generation it is a video to see. Kudos guys. follow this link

Segun Moat is a leading designer in all kinds of English and Native wear.

Segun Moat is banker that discovered his hidden talent in fashion designing years ago and decided to go for it in 2003. He a man known for integrity, creativity and God fearing. Segun Moat industry has trained so many successful designers across the globe, he sees this as a gift from him to Nigeria.

How to keep off Kidney disease.

A lot of people are now familiar with seeing people lie critically sick on the bed and plugged to dialysis machine begging for donations from government and kind-hearted members of public.

The solicited funds usually run into millions of money to cover the cost of temporary dialysis and subsequent organ transplant. Kidney disease risk factor include diabetes, obesity, high blood pressure can lead to or be a sign of kidney disease. Maintaining a healthy weight through exercise, a balanced diet and by drinking lots and lots of water. Not smoking will help to keep your kidney working well.

Symptoms of Kidney infection. 

A change in the frequency of quantity of urine passed, especially at night.

Blood in the urine

Foaming urine

Pain or burning when passing urine.

Pain at the back.

New song by upcoming artist Ronny

Ronny is a graduate of French from Olabisi Onabanjo University, Nigeria. She has always had an unshakable passion for singing. This is her first shot. What do you think. kindly click on this link to listen.  www.reverbnation.com/ronnymusic

Thrive'' The heArt of business leadership.

Thrive – an enterprise development platform powered by Harvesters is hosting 3 leadership expert to educate, inform and spiritually empower individuals and organisations to flourish in the current business terrain. 

Dr. Sam Chand: Worlds 13th most influential leadership guru.

Sam Adeyemi: Leadership expert and Senior Pastor Daystar Christian Centre. 

Tonye Cole: Co founder of Sahara group.

Bolaji Idowu: Senior Pastor of Harvesters International Christian Centre and the host of Thrive.

This event will position you on the right track to lead and succeed in business locally and globally.

for pre-registration and preferred seating , http://www.harvestersng.org/thrive. 

Fyb readers advise me

 


I am a 300 level student, my boyfriend is very caring, he is fortunate to be born into a rich family, he gives me anything i ask for, the only thing i don't like him for is that he keeps asking for sex and i already swore to God i will not have sex with any man again before i met him. our relationship will be 2 years in July and i am still holding on to my vow to God. I am under pressure now because there is a lady i see around him now that look more beautiful and intelligent than i am, i am sure she wont mind giving him sex. The only assurance i have is that he loves me. What do i do?

Week of love, share your love story.

 
Is your partner  worth you? are you getting the love you give back? Is there something you don't understand about the opposite sex? Tell us your story, you might be saving or encouraging someone.

FYB readers comments might just be the answer you have been waiting for
Send stories to funmiyusuff@gmail.com.

who wore it better Micheal Obama & a Nigerian lady?

who wore it better? Jennifer Hudson OR Aishwarya Rai

Don't give up.

When your bank account balance can not feed you for a day
When your boss nags at your work,
When your spouse thinks you are too weak
When your parents say you are not supportive
Work, wait and pray.

When you are 45 and not married
When your friends think you are bad luck 
When no one is listening to you
Watch,wait and pray

When you think you are too short
When you think you are too fat
When you think you are too dark
When you think you are too fair
Look in the mirror and say ''i am perfect the way i am'' (FYB).

The letter Jian Khan, a popular Indian actress wrote to her boyfriend before committing suicide

“ I don’t know how to say this to you but I might as well say now, I have nothing to lose. I’ve already lost everything. If you’re reading this I might have already left or about to leave. I am broken inside. You may not have known this but you affected me deeply to a point where I lost myself in loving you. Yet you tortured me everyday.
These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I’ve never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. You returned my love with cheating and lies. It didn’t matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely the pain you have caused me everyday has destroyed every bit of me, destroyed my soul.
I can’t eat or sleep or think or function. I am running away from everything. The career is not even worth it anymore. When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. I don’t know why destiny brought us together. After all the pain, the r*pe, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn’t deserve this.
I didn’t see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically. Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you. So I am kissing my 10-year career and dreams goodbye. I never told you but I received a message about you. About you cheating on me. I chose to ignore it, decided to trust you. You embarrassed me. I never went out, I never went with anyone else.
I am a loyal person. I never met anyone with Karthik I just wanted you to feel how you make me feel constantly. No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood. Things were looking up for me here, but is it worth it when you constantly feel the pain of heartbreak when the person you love wants to abuse you or threatens to hit you or cheats on you telling other girls they are beautiful or throws you out of their house when you have no where to go and you’ve come to them out of love or when they lie to your face or they make you chase after them in their car. Or disrespects their family.
You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents. You tore my soul. I have no reason to breathe anymore. All I wanted was love. I did everything for you. I was working for us. But you were never my partner. My future is destroyed my happiness snatched away from me. I always wished the best for you, was ready to invest what little money I had in your betterment.
You never appreciated my love, Kicked me in the face. I have no confidence or self esteem left, whatever talent whatever ambition you took it all away. You destroyed my life. It hurt me so much that I waited for you for ten days and you didn’t bother buying me something. The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you. I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply. You destroyed my Christmas and my birthday dinner when I came back.
When I tried my hardest to make your birthday special. You chose to be away from me on Valentines Day. You promised me once we made it to one year we would get engaged. All you want in life is partying, your women and your selfish motives. All I wanted was you and my happiness you took both away from me. I spent money on you selflessly you would throw in my face. When I would cry for you. I have nothing left in this world to live for after this.
I wish you had loved me like I loved you. I dreamt of our future. I dreamt f our success. I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again. I am nothing. I had everything. I felt so alone even while with you. You made me feel alone and vulnerable. I am so much more than this”

On June 8, 2013 Khan’s Condolence meeting was held at Vile Parle Medical Club to pray Jiah. Bollywood actors in attendance included Aamir Khan, Deepika Padukone, Randhir Kapoor, Prateik Babbar, Sanjay Kapoor, Shweta Pandit, Kiran Rao, Urvashi Dholakia, Ranjeet, Deepak Parashar, Sanjay Khan and Naghma.

Check out this kissing position, what does it tell you?

Kemi Olunloyo @ war with government for passing bill against gay.

I am at WAR with the Nigerian National Assembly! I DARE them to order my arrest for Educating Gays with their clueless law. I want everyone … to write their lawmakers that I am encouraging gays and supporting their activities underground. The Gay law is FRAUD!! We did not vote for it, they passed it on our behalf stating that God doesn't want it for the people. You put that kind of SHIT on the fucking ballot and we will be satisfied. The Gay law should be repealed and put on the 2015 ballot like any developed country would.

It is not in the 1999 Constitution and considered fraudulent. When the ppl vote against it, I will be convinced.
Watch me on CNN, CTV and SNN next week. LIB

FYB readers please advise me.

It's been one month now since my husband died, before he died we used to have sex every night except during my monthly periods. He was a nymphomaniac and in the course of satisfying him and saving my marriage, he made me want sex everyday. He has been gone for one month now and it looks to me like one year. I have really tried and i cant hold it anymore. What do i do? 

Female Israeli soldiers punished for uploading half nude pictures online.

Four female Israeli soldiers were disciplined for uploading their half nude pictures on Facebook. Walla, the person that took the pictures confirmed that they were new recruits stationed on a base in southern Israel. It was said that the ladies have displayed an act that shows an 'unbecoming behavior’ for Israeli Soldiers. However, the punishment was not revealed. Source Daily mail.

Diddy says ''even when i was a baby, i had some swag''

Even at such a young age Diddy, who has six children, showed off his ease in front of the camera and his penchant for polo neck jumpers.

LIVING WITH CANCER AND HAPPY

Castellano was diagnosed with neuroblastoma when she was just 7, and now at 13, she recently found out that she has pre-leukemia. While most would probably let something like this get them down, Castellano has been extraordinarily positive, sharing her love of makeup with people online to keep her spirits up, which she says helps her feel beautiful on the inside and out.

People love her tutorials just as much as she loves giving them, her YouTube channel has nearly 600,000 subscribers and a massive 41 million views and counting. Her growing viewership and inspiring story even got the little lady with the doll-like eyes a spot on “Ellen” in September, where the host, a CoverGirl spokeswoman, crowned Castellano as an honorary CoverGirl. If that wasn’t enough, she also showered her with not only a chic makeup table, but also a whopping $20,000 from the company. And just like that, here we are today with Castellano’s image being released officially by the company

Castellano has come a very long way, and even though she has declined the opportunity to get a bone marrow transplant to aid her pre-leukemia diagnosis and says there aren’t too many other options available for her, she just wants to forgo the pain and live her days on this earth as peaceful and happy as possible. She has inspired a great deal of people & she’s gorgeous as well. TW

Yemi Alade

Yemi Alade of the Peak talent show is turning out to be one of the bundle of talents we have in Nigeria. She is someone to watch out for. WOW

What!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My eyes are rolling

Is this an hermaphrodite or a tomboy?

Buttock enlargement led to no limbs.

Hair stylist Apryl Michelle Brown, 46, from LA (pictured left) spent five years in excruciating pain when an unlicensed practitioner injected her buttocks with bathroom sealant, telling her it was silicone, in order to enhance them. Doctors had no idea how to treat the botched implants and told her she might have to live with the agony, but when they finally operated the injections became so badly infection she was induced into a coma. First the area around the injections began to discolour, then become itchy, then incredibly painful, described by Apryl as 'like a toothache, labour pain and a migraine'. She had 27 operations including a buttock amputation and a quadruple lower arm and lower leg amputation

She sought medical advice and the general consensus was that doctors had no idea what to do. Most told her the chemical could not be removed and that she would have to live with the pain.

'Eventually they went in and removed the silicone, along with the butt cheeks.

A chinese baby boy survived a two days stay in a toilet pipe

Firefighters in eastern China have rescued an abandoned newborn baby boy lodged in a sewage pipe.

The infant was stuck in a pipe directly beneath a toilet commode, state television reported, in a case which has sparked anger on social media sites.

There are frequent reports in Chinese media of babies being abandoned, often shortly after birth.
Firefighters in eastern China have rescued an abandoned newborn baby boy lodged in a sewage pipe.

The infant was stuck in a pipe directly beneath a toilet commode. There are frequent reports in Chinese media of babies being abandoned, often shortly after birth. His arms had been pinned to his side, and when the confines of the pipe had been delicately prised away, he let out a long wail - much to the relief of doctors who were battling against the clock to rescue him.

His eyes, face and body were covered in the filth of the pipe.

The child is in a stable condition and the police are looking for his parents, state television added.

The Associated Press said the child had been named Baby No 59 from the number of his incubator,

A number of visitors have donated nappies, baby clothes and powdered milk to the hospital to help the little boy,

He is currently undergoing treatments. Source Daily mail.

Man of the day Garment Micheals